Chip’s B2B Tip #10 - Loud Shouters Bore Me
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B2B Tip #10 - Business Etiquette
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"The Art of War" - by the Watercooler Bullies
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"What in the world are you talking about?" you might ask.
Well ... this might be my first rant on my new blog ... and I made it 10 whole blog posts before I let it rip ...
I'm talking about those people around you who always try to keep everyone else upset, or at least on their toes all the time ... the people who have a PhD in Brown-Nosing, and are where they are because they must know where the body is buried.
Some 'shout' with their evil vocal comments. Others 'shout' with their so-called 'concerns for the good of the company.' Still others just plain bully everyone around because they learned that when they shout the loudest - no one ever notices them.
Others whisper ...
(And their victims are too busy defending themselves to do anything.)
Yes - the person with the most to hide always 'shouts' the loudest. So if you shake your head in amazement as you watch office politics, nepotism, and brown-nosing rule the business world, understand one thing, pilgrim ...
As long as you're part of that world - you're stuck with it.
What can you do?
Get the heck outta there.
How?
I'm glad you asked ...
Look - let's face facts ... your next birthday is coming. And even though this week we entered a new year, January 2006 is just around the corner. They'll both come whether you like it or not, and whether you're prepared or not ...
So, my best advice for you is to turn off that blasted TV, and rededicate your life to yourself. That's all you came into this world with - and that's all you're gonna leave with.
Fact.
If you will look around, find something - anything - that interests you, invest the time and money into it to learn it ... if you'll do this for an hour a day in 2005, by the time 2006 hits, you could be at the very top of your field.
Why? People are lazy. They want to start at the top, earn more than they're worth, do less than they should, and be handsomely rewarded and acknowledged. If you don't work with people like this, consider yourself Blessed.
So, if you're sick 'n tired of being sick 'n tired about all the crap that goes on in business today, understand that you - yes, you - really can make a difference ... a difference for yourself ... a difference for your family ... and you could even make a difference in your world.
The key word is 'you.' You not only have to want it - you have to willing to fight for it.
The only way you'll ever 'shout-down' the shouters is to beat them at their own game. You can't change rude people, and you can't change manipulators. But you can choose not to be associated with them ... if you'll take the steps to disassociate yourself from them.
It might not happen this week, or this month. But when it does - and it will - you just beat the 'shouters' (the most boring group of people I know) at their own game!
(Ed. Note: Hey - I'm not down on people as a whole ... only the ones who deserve it!)
© Chip Tarver
The B2B Relationship Pro
http://www.FirstContactSecrets.com
http://www.Free-Targeted-Traffic.com
B2B Tip #10 - Business Etiquette
.
"The Art of War" - by the Watercooler Bullies
.
"What in the world are you talking about?" you might ask.
Well ... this might be my first rant on my new blog ... and I made it 10 whole blog posts before I let it rip ...
I'm talking about those people around you who always try to keep everyone else upset, or at least on their toes all the time ... the people who have a PhD in Brown-Nosing, and are where they are because they must know where the body is buried.
Some 'shout' with their evil vocal comments. Others 'shout' with their so-called 'concerns for the good of the company.' Still others just plain bully everyone around because they learned that when they shout the loudest - no one ever notices them.
Others whisper ...
(And their victims are too busy defending themselves to do anything.)
Yes - the person with the most to hide always 'shouts' the loudest. So if you shake your head in amazement as you watch office politics, nepotism, and brown-nosing rule the business world, understand one thing, pilgrim ...
As long as you're part of that world - you're stuck with it.
What can you do?
Get the heck outta there.
How?
I'm glad you asked ...
Look - let's face facts ... your next birthday is coming. And even though this week we entered a new year, January 2006 is just around the corner. They'll both come whether you like it or not, and whether you're prepared or not ...
So, my best advice for you is to turn off that blasted TV, and rededicate your life to yourself. That's all you came into this world with - and that's all you're gonna leave with.
Fact.
If you will look around, find something - anything - that interests you, invest the time and money into it to learn it ... if you'll do this for an hour a day in 2005, by the time 2006 hits, you could be at the very top of your field.
Why? People are lazy. They want to start at the top, earn more than they're worth, do less than they should, and be handsomely rewarded and acknowledged. If you don't work with people like this, consider yourself Blessed.
So, if you're sick 'n tired of being sick 'n tired about all the crap that goes on in business today, understand that you - yes, you - really can make a difference ... a difference for yourself ... a difference for your family ... and you could even make a difference in your world.
The key word is 'you.' You not only have to want it - you have to willing to fight for it.
The only way you'll ever 'shout-down' the shouters is to beat them at their own game. You can't change rude people, and you can't change manipulators. But you can choose not to be associated with them ... if you'll take the steps to disassociate yourself from them.
It might not happen this week, or this month. But when it does - and it will - you just beat the 'shouters' (the most boring group of people I know) at their own game!
(Ed. Note: Hey - I'm not down on people as a whole ... only the ones who deserve it!)
© Chip Tarver
The B2B Relationship Pro
http://www.FirstContactSecrets.com
http://www.Free-Targeted-Traffic.com
posted by Chip Tarver at 1/04/2005 02:12:00 PM
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